About Bobby

I am a certified Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, and cosmic comic calling the vibrant city of Portland, Oregon, my home. A few years ago, I embarked on an unusual journey, a kind of social experiment that would shape the work I do today. For nearly three months, I traveled in silence—not a single word spoken. My goal was to step out of my own way, quiet my ego, and immerse myself fully in a world where listening took the lead.

During this time, I experienced firsthand how naturally people are drawn to share when they feel genuinely heard. Without words to fill the space, I discovered the simple, powerful magic of silent presence. People shared their troubles, their joys, their secrets—knowing I wasn’t there to advise or judge, only to listen.

It became clear that when we let go of preparing responses, judgments, and advice, something truly extraordinary happens. The usual filters and biases fall away, allowing a genuine connection to emerge. In this space, listening transforms from a passive act to a deeply engaged experience that honors the speaker's story, their emotions, and even their silence.

This quiet experiment helped me craft the philosophy behind Listening Bear. Here, we create a safe, non-judgmental space for anyone who needs to be heard. I believe that being truly listened to can be a transformative experience, one that doesn’t just touch the speaker but resonates deeply within both of us.